I think wondering how to fill the gap your eating disorder previously filled is very common. But remember—only you can answer the question of what to do next.
And there is so much waiting for you. There are a thousand possibilities at your fingertips, from the simple every day things to the more complex life goals. You just have to ask yourself one question.
What do you want to do?
It’s an open question with many possible answers…and that’s the beauty of it.
What's in your head and your heart? What are your passions? What makes you feel good?
Do you want to make new friends? Do you want to go back to school? Do you want to get out in the job world? Do you want to pursue a dream you’ve often had in the back of your mind? Do you want to have a family? Do you want to travel?
Now comes the obvious thought: we can’t always do what we want to do. Finances get in the way. Time can be an issue. A lot of things can prevent us from doing what we want to do. BUT—and this is a big but—you never let things be an issue when finding a way to fit your eating disorder into your daily life, did you?
Granted, money doesn’t grow on trees and lots of things that are very important take up our time. Understandable. Valid. But if you really want something, you can achieve it. And don’t let anything stop you.
Most importantly, think about what would make you happy. Come up with three things.
Then find a way to incorporate them into your life. Fill that gap. There’s no charge for that kind of fill-up.
Best of luck.